I’d like to start this off with a question…Okay a few questions…Stay with me though, okay?

What do you con­sider to be your most prized pos­ses­sion?  What is that one thing you value more than any­thing in the world?  When you think of what it is, think about this…What would it take for you to give that away to some­one – any­one?  Would you want them to pay for it?  Would you want them to bar­gain for it?  Would you want them to work for it?  Would you want to give it to some­one that would take as good of care of it as you would?  These are all the ques­tions you should con­sider when mak­ing deci­sions on whether or not to have a cer­tain some­one in your life; the per­son you are going to open your heart to.

Anything that is of impor­tance to you should be treated with care…both by YOU and any oth­ers you allow the priv­i­lege to han­dle it. This includes your heart.

Have you had dis­cus­sions with an adult about what an appro­pri­ate dat­ing age is? Are you already dat­ing some­one? Have you been think­ing that there’s a guy that you like and you want to get to know him bet­ter? The ages vary for when a girl decides to give a boy the title of “boyfriend”, and in mat­ters of the ♥heart♥, the right choices are not always made because a girl may enter into a rela­tion­ship too early, exclu­sively shar­ing her space with some­one before she is ready.  You should always assess the sit­u­a­tion before leap­ing into any­thing seri­ous.  Make sure you are choos­ing some­one that has your best inter­ests at heart.  Some­one that val­ues all that you are.  Keep in mind that once you start off mak­ing the right choices, this pat­tern will con­tinue through­out your life.

Of course, things are not going to always be easy when enter­ing rela­tion­ships, but a healthy rela­tion­ship should never inflict pain on your heart.

So Baby­girlz, what age do you think a girl should begin dat­ing?  What are the things that you look for in a guy?  Let us know in the com­ments below.